Something we all should know ❤

A Caesarean section is a lifelong disability from the birth of a child until the death of a mother.
Many people often passes remarks like, “Oh, Caesar’s pain is nothing but only cuts the stomach !!.. ” You are not only the one who is dealing with the C Section pain”

But let me tell you that the baby has to be brought into the world by cutting the 8 curtains of our body. Yes, maybe the feeling of cutting the abdomen is not understood coz of anesthesia before a caesarean section but within half an hour,
3 hours of saline are over.

This spinal injection injected into the spine through a thick syringe causes lifelong pain in the back of the woman..
The next 24 hours brings immense pain, that kind of pain where u feel somebody has chopped one of your body part but had not applied medicine but yes, it’s endurable after surviving that pain for 48 hours.
First 24 hours you cant even turn yourself on bed, forget about walking by yourself for washroom!
Believe me, when the retirement period of anesthesia is over, you have to squirm like a hen with a cut throat.
24 saline is given in 24 hours and there is no need for me to say what is the pain in the injection site, when they puncture both your hands one by one with the saline syringe.
Canola saline is running in her hand, Catheter’s frozen body is trembling in the urinary tract.
And still with all these struggles, we have to breastfeed the new born baby and smile at the Relatives and on top of it listen to the 100 uninvited advise people and relatives around.

So, I want to ask people who age this mindset that when your woman is pregnent Or have given birth to a child has to be compared with other woman ?


It’s true, Everyone knows that every single lady has to go through this pain but it really needs a special one to care for her and understand her needs, her trauma are real not an act!! ( stop comparing) 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

You know sometimes long after the child birth we are tired and irritated, sometimes we can’t get up immediately from sitting,
we can’t bend and pick up the child,
We can’t lift heavy things,
We can’t walk for long,
We can’t stand in queues,
As the back hurts bad !!!
It hurts a lot then !!

All women are strong 💪 There are people who will make u weak just ignore them.. Who will never understand you they will always give you examples or compare you just sideline them and focus on your baby.🤱

Hence, please remember that whether it’s a Normal delivery or a Caesarean delivery – A woman, a mother, a wife always need special care love respect-
Never compare pregnancy or new mother with other woman because the pain, the symptoms, the lifestyle varies from person to person

Women after 40…👵🙋‍♀️💃


Women after 40 ..

When some women turn 40 or 50 years, something major shifts in their personality. They become bolder, more rebellious, more focused, more opinionated, and more emphatic about what they want.

Don’t be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive woman on turning 40/50 changes completely.

At this age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to question some of your instructions and even the way you behave. She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind.

There is something definitely special about turning 40/50 for women.
If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions, get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude.

The only way to avoid a total breakdown of Peace and Harmony is to become fair, objective and reasonable in your approach to issues at home.

Bear in mind that at this age, she also harbours a lot of regrets about the decisions she has made in life so far … you may be one of them!

A woman at this age is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a man using very different parameters.

Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their wives/partners. What you put in is what you get!

If you have treated her fairly, then you don’t have anything to worry about. She will begin to appreciate you better if for any reason she didn’t do so in the past. On the contrary if you haven’t been nice to her, fasten your seatbelt, the ride is about to get pretty bumpy.

A Woman doesn’t forget those who hurt her, and by her actions and utterances you will know that she is out to show you that she is no longer that little girl you married !💃🙋‍♀️👵🤗🤪

Hard hitting post but so true ………❣️❣️❣️

Just for Laughs

꧁*Pandemic laughter*꧂

꧁• If you see me leaving a Social group, please add me back again. It’s just that I’m so desperate to go out!

꧁• Never in my wildest dreams have I imagined myself entering a bank, wearing a mask, and asking for money.

꧁• Never thought my hands would one day consume more alcohol than my liver…ever!

꧁• Quarantine seems like a Netflix series: just when you think it’s over, they release the next season.

꧁• I’m starting to like this mask thing. I went to the supermarket yesterday and two people that I owe money to didn’t recognize me.

꧁• Those complaining 2020 didn’t have enough holidays, what now?!

꧁• I need to social distance myself from my fridge; I tested positive for excess weight!

꧁• Could someone tell me if the second quarantine would be with the same family or we get to exchange?

꧁• I’m not planning on adding 2020 to my age. I didn’t even use it!

꧁• We want to publicly apologize to the year 2019 for all the bad things we said about it.

꧁• To all the ladies who were praying for their husbands to spend more time with them, how are you doing?

꧁• My washing machine only accepts pyjamas these days. I put in a pair of jeans and a message popped up : “Stay Home!”

꧁• I feel like a teenager all year long: no money in the wallet, hair long and out of control, thinking what to do with my life, and grounded at home.


“लफ़्ज़” “आईने” हैं
मत इन्हें “उछाल” के चल,
“अदब” की “राह” मिली है तो
“देखभाल” के चल
मिली है “ज़िन्दगी” तुझे
इसी ही “मकसद” से,
“सँभाल” “खुद” को भी
“औरों” को “सँभाल” के चल.


Motivational Thoughts

Life is short and each day we grow a day older. But there are many things we can do to live a long happy life, entering old age full of youthful energy and vitality. A long happy life is a combination of healthy mind and body….😍😃

Stress will shorten your life and make you look older. Stress can come in many forms, such as holding onto the past with regret, anger, blame, holding a grudge, all these will create stress and unhappiness. Also worrying about the future, always wanting, needing, over thinking, quick to anger, all produce stress and over time will rob you of your youth. It is important to learn to let go quickly and try to avoid stress plus life is better when we are happy..😍😃

Physical Activity is important for health and many studies have shown that being inactive shortens your life. Even just going for a good walk each day will give you more energy, reduce stress, make you feel happier, improve your health and also help you to reduce weight…..💃

Spend some time in the sun each day for vitamin D that is really a hormone, and an important factor in health. 💛💛 Plus a peaceful good night’s sleep each night….💤💤

Life is about balance, so balance your time between work and family….👫👬👭

Yes, you can reach old age and still be youthful, so always be thankful, loving and compassionate, and smile, laugh, enjoy life and everything that life has to offer ….

Taste buds 😋😋

Sharing a few interesting facts about Bhaakri – A Healthy option …
Bhakri (bhākri, bhakkari) भाकरी is a round bread often used in the cuisine of the states of Maharashtra, Gujarat and Goa in India, along with several regions of western and central India, including areas of Rajasthan and Malwa and Karnataka in South India. The bhakri prepared using wheat is coarser than a regular wheat chapati. Bhakri can be either soft or hard in texture, similar to khakhra in respect to hardness.

Different types of millets (jowar, bajra, nachni) are the more common grains used for making bhakris. These millet bhakris are popular in the Deccan plateau regions of India (Maharashtra and Northern Karnataka) as well as the semi-arid regions of Rajasthan.In the coastal Konkan and Goa regions of western India rice floor is used for making bhaakri.

Jowar bhakri – Jowar bhakris are the most common type of bhakri. The dough is prepared by mixing jowar flour with hot water and then flattened by hand.
Bajra bhakri – Bajra bhakris are mainly prepared in winter, especially near the festival of Sankrant. The preparation is similar to jowar bhakris. This is normally consumed with chutney and butter.
Nachni bhakri – Nachni bhakhris, or ragi rottis, are made of red finger millets. They are prepared similar to other bhakris.
Rice bhakri – Rice bhakhris are made of rice flour, prepared similarly to other bhakris. They are common in the Konkan region.
Wheat Bhakri – Wheat bhakris are like wheat rotis, but bigger in size and depth with proportionally more oil.

The dough for bhaakri is prepared by mixing the flour with small amount of salt in a bowl and knead into a smooth stiff dough, using enough hot water.The dough is split into little balls. The ball is then flattened using one’s palms. There are 2 types by which is made. It is either flattened in the plate by palm by pressing or it is made thin by holding the ball in both palms which requires a lot of skill. The tava (pan) is heated and the bhaakri is cooked applying little water to the upper surface and spread it all over with the help of the cook’s fingers. The other side also cooked on the tava. Once it is prepared, it is roasted in the direct flame on both sides…

Bhaakri is typically served with yogurt, garlic chutney, Pithla, baingan bharta, thecha (chutney made of green chillies and peanuts), preparations of green leafy vegetables and raw onion.In some parts of north Karnataka it is served with stuffed brinjal curry. In Vidarbha, it is eaten with “Zunka”- A coarse and thick variant of “Pithla.” It has traditionally been the rural staple which would be carried to the farm at the crack of dawn and make up for both breakfast and lunch. In the fields, bhaakri is even used as a plate, on which chutney or thecha was served and eaten together. In the coastal regions, the rice flour bhaakris are mainly served with fish curry.

Taste buds 😋😋

Excerpts from Mumbai Mirror

The art of Sutterfeni

It takes kneading, stretching, soaking over 3 days.

In Bombay, sutterfeni is a shy but omnipresent sweet. It doesn’t have the ostentatious calorie wealth of a motichur ladoo, nor does it seduce like rabdi malpua. Yet, it hasn’t met an eater it didn’t win over.

So, where did the fluffy, stringy sweet originate?
It turns out, a method most complex goes behind making this deceptively simple mithai. ‘Sutter’, says Ananda Solomon, executive chef at Vivanta by Taj, means ‘thread’ in Gujarati. ‘Feni’ refers to ‘fine’.

Some communities also call it sutterfirni, which Umaima Chitalwala of N Lookmanji Mithaiwala assumes comes from the Islamic tradition of mixing the sweet in cold milk and eating it like thick kheer.

It is said that the sutterfeni was born in the deserts of Gujarat and Rajasthan, from where it travelled with merchants to Mumbai. It finds a place on the dessert menu of most communities that hail from the area — Bohris, Parsis and Marwaris. Silloo Nariman of Princess Street’s Parsi Diary Farm, pins it more specifically to the Khambat region of Gujarat. But the halwaiis of Rajasthan wear the tag of being the most sought-after sutterfeni-makers.

While it’s a no-occassion sweet among Maharashtrians, the Parsis anticipate it as a gift for the New Year. Muslims have it with milk during Ramazan and fateha.

– ✍✍Mumbai Mirror

Motivational Thoughts


Continuously being bombarded by negative news and home -confinement has made many people too fearful.

People are mostly driven by fear. Their fears may be a result of a traumatic experience, unrealistic expectations, growing up in a high-control home, or even genetic predisposition.

Regardless of the cause, fear-driven people often miss great opportunities because they’re afraid to venture out. Instead they play it safe, avoiding risks and trying to maintain the status quo.

Motivational Thoughts

Pain is Pain, just like Rain…
Sometimes Small; Sometimes Big, But it is always present among us like 100 % attendance !!

Pain is Pain, just like Rain…..
It becomes less; when you are in front of me ❤…just like….How All students keep quiet when a teacher comes in the classroom !!!

Pain is pain, just like rain….
However again in the night; Pain sticks back to me just like Two Lovers meeting after a long time !!!

Pain is Pain, just like Rain…..⚘❤
– Shobha Iyer

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