The Pain of LOVE…will never Stop…

It is inevitable that sometimes love hurts…. It really hurts to love someone and not be loved in return but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel.   Love is the most beautiful of dreams and the worst of nightmares.

  • Love is painful,  because it creates the way for joy,  for bliss and for compassion.
  • Love is painful, because it transforms you.
  • Love is growth.  Love itself does not hurt. It is the growth that hurts, the ego that stings. Each transformation is painful because the old situation is being left behind for the new.
  • The Pleasure of LOVE lasts only for a moment, yet the Pain of LOVE lasts for a lifetime and cannot be forgotten …


Lovers never realize how much one little thing can hurt each other.  However much you wanted someone to want you, there was nothing you could do to make it happen. Whatever you did for them, whatever you gave them, whatever you let them take, it could never be enough. Never enough to be sure. Never enough to satisfy them. Never enough to stop them walking away. Never enough to make them love you.

Love is actually quite painful.  In fact, love, marriage, and family will be the most painful things you will ever experience. Not because they are bad things, but because to love at all means to open yourselves up to vulnerability and pain. And to love someone completely is to put your whole heart to the relation.  True love will be painful. True love should be painful.  To be clear, when I say that true love should be painful I am not referring to abusive, obsessive, or co-dependent relationships; those relationships are predicated upon selfishness and will inevitably produce a pain that’s destructive and detrimental.  No, the “painful love” to which I am referring are those relationships that help us grow beyond ourselves. Because we are all imperfect, we will inevitably get hurt. But that hurt has the ability to make us stronger than before.

Please erase from  your minds the picture of a perfect, painless love; it simply doesn’t exist. Because love isn’t always fluffy, cute, and cuddly. More often than not, real love doesn’t look attractive.  True love asks us to do hard things, almost impossible things—to repeatedly try to help a family member overcome a loss, to care for a dying parent, to embrace a stubborn child, to comfort someone who is suffering, to risk your safety for another, or to give birth to a child – the most difficult and painful moment in life – giving life to another.

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  • If only you would realize some day, how much have you hurt me,
  • If only your heart ever, craves for me or my presence…
  • If only you feel that love again someday for me,
  • If only you are affected someday by my absence…
  • Only you can end all my suffering and this unbearable pain,
  • If only you would know what you could never procure…
  • If only you go through the memories of past once again,
  • Since the day you left my heart has bled, no one has its cure…
  • If only you would bring that love, flowers, spring, summer, rain…
  • If only you would come back and see what damage you have created,
  • I have been waiting for your return since forever …
  • If only you would see the lover that you have made,
  • You said we cannot be together in the journey of life, how were you so sure?
  • If only you can feel that the old things that can never fade, You may have moved on, but a piece of my heart is still with you…
  • I know how I have come so far alone; I know how I am able to walk through alone;  People say that I am insane and you won’t ever come back to me again…
  • Maybe you would have never made your separate way, just stayed with me and proved everyone wrong…
  • If only you would know the pain of dying every day, the burden of smiling and being strong…
  • It hurts when you have someone in your heart, but you can’t have them in your arms. –

I have been hurt but I will still continue to love, for that gives me courage to go on with my life.  I truly believe that Love is Life…   The love that lasts the longest is the love that is never returned.

LOVE can leave a Memory which no one can ever Steal, but at the same time, Love can also leave a Pain that no one can Heal…pain-of-love-1.jpg


Published by Shobha Iyer

Always be Happy; always wear a Smile, Not because Life is full of reasons to Smile, but because your Smile itself maybe a reason for many others to Smile ;The Greatest Thing In Life Is Love And The Second Is Laughter..

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